![]() ![]() ![]() Here’s how it would work: Eugene would recreate the trauma that haunted him most by calling on people in the room to play certain roles. “But I have a full memory and a complete sense of what it is like to be loved and nurtured by her.” That’s because, he explained, he had done the very exercise that we were about to try on Eugene. “My mother was very unnurturing and unloving,” he said. Van der Kolk began as he often does, with a personal anecdote. Now, finally, he was about to demonstrate an actual therapeutic technique, and his gaze was fixed on the subject of his experiment: a 36-year-old Iraq war veteran named Eugene, who sat directly across from van der Kolk, looking mournful and expectant. For two days, they had listened to his lectures on the social history, neurobiology and clinical realities of post-traumatic stress disorder and its lesser-known sibling, complex trauma. They, too, sat barefoot on cushy pillows, eyeing van der Kolk, notebooks in hand. It was the third day of his workshop, “Trauma Memory and Recovery of the Self,” and 30 or so workshop participants - all of them trauma victims or trauma therapists - lined the room’s perimeter. He wore khaki pants, a blue fleece zip-up and square wire-rimmed glasses. Bessel van der Kolk sat cross-legged on an oversize pillow in the center of a smallish room overlooking the Pacific Ocean in Big Sur. ![]()
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